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The Unmarried Man Series

Why Does Texting First Feel Like Losing? →

She texted first. That alone should have meant something.It doesn’t, but it should. We met the way people meet now.On an app. Low expectations. Minimal investment.The quiet understanding that most of this leads nowhere. But this one didn’t feel like that. The first drink Continue reading...



Do You Say Thank You to ChatGPT? →

I said “please” to ChatGPT last night. 2 AM. Sitting on my uneven couch. Asked it to help rewrite a client email. Started with “Can you please help me with something?” Like it has a choice. Like it might say no. Like it’s doing Continue reading...



The Rush: When Comfortable Feels Terrifying →

Sarah and I have been seeing each other for three weeks. That’s what we call it. “Seeing each other.” Not dating. Not exclusive. Just… seeing. It’s vague enough to mean everything and nothing. Very convenient. Very modern. Very cowardly. We’ve been out five times. Continue reading...





The Algorithm Knows I’m Single →

My phone knows I’m single before I do. It’s Tuesday. I’m at Gregory’s on Park Ave. The line’s seven people deep. Everyone’s on their phones. I’m on mine too. Emma, 31, liked my photo. I don’t know Emma. The app says we’re 87% compatible. Continue reading...